Anonymous said: I think it's irritating when people judge certain feminists for excluding porn enthusiast/ racist/ bdsm feminists. We do this so that the good name of feminism doesn't get associated with these shitty ideologies and so that young girls don't get the wrong ideas
Yeah, I’m not a huge fan of being more feminist than thou or revoking feminist cards, but mainstream (read: lib) feminism is transforming into a bunch of inane gibberish about sexual freedom (which isn’t really freedom when women are pressured into doing things). There’s a good post/quote that is something to the extent of, “Women fought for the right to say yes and forgot we could still say no” and I completely agree.
I often feel like I’m surrounded by people who have lots of casual sex/hook up a lot, but I can count on one hand the # of guys I’ve felt chemistry with and I question myself. :/ BUT THATS DUMB. Guys I’ve had chemistry with? Those interactions have been fulfilling, I don’t regret that. Guys I’ve forced myself to date/kiss because someone’s just told me I’m not “open enough”, ew gross I wish I could wipe that from my memory.
I think it all ties into the Hypersexuality of society. Bdsm is fun and your sex is boring if you’re not into bdsm. There’s just wayyyy too much focus on making sex “exciting” when there’s barely any sex education. Porn is readily available and with the lack of proper instruction/direction from adults (in the form of sex talks and extensive sex ed classes), people legit are growing up on porn thinking this is normal. I tell ya HWAT if a guy ever tried to spit on me he’d have a hard time getting it up for a minimum of 2 months.
Liberal feminists are selfish. They literally DO NOT CARE about anything beyond the realm of their existence. My god the “race play” in porn alone should be a fucking wake up call, but no, they do not think of the children/women who are targeted and dehumanized because that would ruin their mediocre, wanna be edgy sex lives.
Apparently Radical feminists only care about telling women what they can and can’t do with their lives.
Oh, man. It didn’t take long for someone to be offended by my hard stance against industries that have proven to be detrimental to women around the world, would you look at that.
Yeah totally, it’s not like the whole thing was a “Poor girls don’t know their being tricked by the big bad patriarchy, none of them do it of their own free will.”Also proven my ass,evangelical Christians have “proven” the same thing, despite the fact that their entire religion is detrimental to women. So I’m defiantly not going to listen to the side of feminist that sound like they get their statistics from tv megachuch pastors. Even as much as I hate regular feminist in general.
Brush up on your reading comprehension, get your head out of your super edgy atheist asshole, do some light research (coupled with critical thinking skills) on trafficking then maybe rethink your accusations faulting women and their [implied] poor decisions (as a result of economic vulnerability x racism x mental vulnerability all brought to you by the big bad patriarchy™).
Until then, have fun defending porn or choice feminism or whatever the fuck bullshit you’re on. 😊